Girls, do any of you like to be in charge of a relationship?

Im not talking extreme to the point of master and slave relationship. i just find it a turnoff when a girl expects me to make all the decisons, and lead her 24/7. I find it extremly hot when the girl nurtures me, and has the power. For example i think its hot when my ex forces me to eat healthy, and doesnt allow me to eat junk food, and if i have school the next day forces me to go to sleep early. I find it hot when she expects me to do what she wants. but i know most girls like to be told what to do all the time, but are there any girls here who like it the other way around